Faces of MoFo: Patricia Perez Elias

Editors' Note: As part of our ongoing Faces of MoFo series, Patricia Perez Elias, a Transactions associate in the firm's Boston office, discusses her career path and what led her to call MoFo home.

I was born in Puerto Rico, a small, beautiful island in the Caribbean belonging to the United States. My parents had been young when they got married, finished college, and had me and my sister in their early twenties. From an early age, I was aware of my parents' dreams and aspirations for me and my sister. Like many from their generation, they wanted us to succeed in school in order to be able to get into a prestigious university on the mainland. While I loved growing up in Puerto Rico, moving to the mainland would seemingly bring the financial stability my own parents never had growing up or raising us. But one week into making this dream finally come true, everything came crashing down.

Twelve years ago, and one week into my first year of college at Boston University, I received an early morning call from my dad - my mom had been the victim of a hit and run while she was training for the Chicago Marathon alongside her two closest running friends. While I don't remember much about that specific day as I waited for extended family from Connecticut to come pick me up, I have very distinct memories of the following weeks.

I didn't immediately fly to Puerto Rico, as my dad had convinced me that everything was going to be okay and that I should wait until things had settled down a bit. After my mom survived the first night, then the second night, and then a full week, her prognosis, while still delicate, seemed to be getting better. A week after the accident, I finally got to visit her. I was determined to be positive and make everything feel as normal as I possibly could.

My dad, my sister, and I were in the car driving home after a day spent at the ICU when I said to him, "I'll leave BU and stay here." I knew very tough times were ahead.

"No, you go back there and you make us proud, just like we know you can and just like I know your mom wants you to," he said. Getting on that plane back to Boston was one of the most difficult decisions I have made in my life, even to this day.

After months in the ICU and then in rehab in Atlanta for her traumatic spinal cord injury (thanks to hundreds of thousands of generous Puerto Ricans who fundraised for her medical costs), my mom pulled through. While she will never be able to walk again and the life my parents once imagined for our family was drastically changed, once again I saw my parents putting into action what they had taught me at a young age-you never give up, you keep fighting, you keep going.

Through the remainder of my years in college, then through law school and now in my career, I put into practice the lessons I learned during that time. As an associate in Morrison Foerster's Mergers and Acquisitions practice, my job requires me to adapt, to be solution-oriented, and to work efficiently with a team. Even more valuable to me is that I am able to connect with my clients and colleagues on a personal level because I know that even when times are difficult and problems seem insurmountable, sticking to the course, being grounded, and taking it one step at a time is the only way to achieve success. It is this determination and this ethos that I take with me in every deal and that allow me to represent my clients with integrity and passion. As many other experienced colleagues have told me again and again, "It's a marathon, not a sprint," and I'm not sure my colleagues know how true those words ring. Now, twelve years later, I will run the Chicago Marathon in October in honor of my mom and she, alongside my "team" of family and friends, will be cheering me on from the sidelines from the moment I toe the starting line through the crossing of the finish line. I can't imagine a higher privilege than getting to do this for them.