12/02/2024 | Press release | Distributed by Public on 12/02/2024 16:00
Published on December 02, 2024
There are so many great things about the holiday season: getting together with friends, the excitement around special occasions and more. But along with the good can come the bad: loneliness, grief, anxiety and frustration, which can make things far from merry and bright.
If you struggle with mental health during the holidays, you are not alone: going into the 2022 holiday season, data from the American Psychiatric Association showed nearly a third of Americans reported they anticipated being more stressed out that holiday season than the previous year. Some of the holiday stresses they reported were financial stress from gift purchasing, affording holiday meals and spending time with family members. Regardless of how you're feeling this holiday season, help is available and the Denver Department of Public Health & Environments (DDPHE) wants to remind our community of healthy habits and resources for residents:
Don't go it alone
It is important to get support from friends, family, coworkers, and mental health professionals if you need it. The holidays can be a stressful time. You are not alone. There are many resources available locally and nationally that offer supportive services that address mental and behavioral health. If you are in immediate danger, call 9-1-1.
Learn more about DDPHE's work to improve mental and behavioral well-being in Denver at Denvergov.org/CommunityHealth.
Maintain a healthy routine and set boundaries
Getting a good night's rest, staying hydrated, incorporating movement - like walking or stretching - can help stabilize your mood, reduce feelings of stress and anxiety, and improve long-term mental well-being. Make or schedule time for yourself. Do not be afraid to set healthy boundaries, including taking time for yourself. Scheduling time to go for a walk alone, to read, or to exercise will leave you feeling more energized and will improve your mood.
You can't (and shouldn't) control everything. Focus on what you can. When you focus on what you can control, like your mindset, your attitude, and your actions, you can instead feel confident, empowered, and energized. Consider making a list of what you can control and refer to it when you start to feel anxious.
Support others by choosing your words carefully
Stigma is one of the biggest challenges people with mental health conditions face. Stigma is a negative belief, treatment or prejudice toward a group of people often based on stereotypes or assumptions. Studies in Colorado and across the U.S. have found that poor mental health is on the rise and accessing care is still a struggle for many.
Support your friends and family this holiday season (and year round) by thinking carefully about the words you use when you speak about mental health. DDPHE's What You Say Matters campaign addresses sources of stigma and provides alternatives to language that is stigmatizing.
Check out the language guide to learn what to say to support people experiencing mental health conditions.
Support and tips for those in recovery and maintaining sobriety
For those in recovery, the holidays can be a time of high stress, making them more vulnerable to relapse. Maintaining sobriety during the holidays can feel like a full-time job. As many celebrations center around alcohol, the holidays are a good opportunity to start new traditions like baking, caroling, or volunteering to participate in the spirit of the season. Volunteering is a great way to stay busy, connect with others, and practice gratitude.
Between family reunions, work festivities, and parties with friends, you can feel pressure to attend every event. Plan on only attending events that truly interest you to avoid extra stress. When you attend a party, bring your own water, soda, or make a holiday mocktail from online recipes. If possible, drive yourself to the event so you can leave at a time that works for you.
More information on maintaining sobriety during the holidays is available through the Addiction Policy Forum.
DDPHE offers free overdose prevention resources, including naloxone and fentanyl test strips, for all Denver residents.
Honor your grief
The holiday season isn't always happy and can be triggering for those who have lost a loved one. The Family Advocacy Support Team (FAST) at Denver's Office of the Medical Examiner provides tips for managing grief at the holidays for people who have experienced loss.
Remember, it's okay to feel anxious and know you're not alone in feeling this way. There isn't a right or wrong way to approach the holidays after loss. Be present with the people around you. And be kind to yourself. It's important to acknowledge your feelings, instead of ignoring them.
Create a list of coping skills you can rely during these moments. Activities like breathing deeply, taking a walk, practicing meditation, and listening to music can help you process your feelings.
You'll find more advice here on grief and the holidays.